respect

it doesn't come with conditions
it does look like a doormat
or have a list of excuses

it is built up over time
it is given freely
not because of age or station
not because military might or numbers

respect is not about agreeing
respect comes with commonsense
respect comes with constructive criticism

It does not have a mob mentality
it does not use bullying tactics
it does not swear it's tits off at you

respect comes freely